"At this stage of development, your child may make
choices that differ from what you have envisioned."..."Through your conversations with your child, the door is open to talk these things over and offer suggestions.
Some discouragement of activities you dislike is okay, because as the
parent, you want to let your child know you. At the same time,
you remember your child is an individual, with his or her own
life, not an extension of you."
From Chapter 4... of Justine`s Book: Conversations With Your Child
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